With so many becoming increasingly interested to enter the kink, fetish, sadomasochism and rope bondage; Kinbaku/Shibari scenes, The Psychology of BDSM & Rope Bondage explores who we are, why we seek these adventures, dangers and warning signs, advice and techniques, and how to use our emotional intelligence to maximise our potential enjoyment, while minimising the risks.
Why do we enjoy adult games? What drives our sexual urges, fantasies and libidos? What motivates us to indulge in domination and submission play? What makes us sadistic or masochistic? Why do we like to tie our partners, or be restrained ourselves?
Sin’s book really makes a difference, because it concentrates on explaining the reasons why rope bondage and BDSM has become so popular, how to recognize pernicious motives, and how to maximize communication and trust.
Logging sessions over several years, Sin unravels many threads of our erotic personalities, how varied, but also, how similar we are.
This is a book for everybody – bottom and top, submissive and dominant, masochist and sadist, to consider who we may be, why we enjoy what we do, and help steer focus towards the prime factor – the pleasure of people doing something special together, for each other, and to help define what is of importance, and what is only a tool.
– Professor Jakob Pastoetter, President of the German Society for Social Scientific Sexuality Research DGSS
